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FRIENDSHIP - communication; unspoken words to spoken words; part six (06)

Sometimes, you don't like a person because they remind you of something you don't like about yourself. Most great relationships start from a place of conflict and evolve into something richer. Master your fear rather than be enslaved by it and communicate your concerns to make the paths clear of a relationship with misunderstandings. Note that no one likes to hear what he or she is doing wrong all the time, hence, in expressing your feelings or concerns, know the difference between speaking cordially calmly and nagging.


Without communication, people are left confused, upset and unsure in any given situation; don’t jeopardize a good thing just because you don’t want to communicate. Silent reactions kill the flow while worded action thrills the glow. Such reactions paint dirt on emotions without being caught in the art. Ignoring someone and not telling him or her why you’re acting as so is immature. Stop playing hard-to-get when there isn’t a game to be played. Rather than giving a cold shoulder, talk about it and clear up any confusion or misunderstanding.

Silent reaction stir ill feelings infested with misunderstandings; talk it out. If something has been unspoken; yearn for it. Something spoken too can be misinterpreted; that's why communication never ends its cycle. While silence often waters the root of bitterness, dialogue is the Golden Bridge that keeps friends together. Friendship isn't built on monologue but dialogue; it differs from tutoring; friendship is mutual and takes more than one party to work. Let your communication be open, honest and free of power.

Action to communicate your feelings, standards or what you want from a certain type of relationship is more effective than silent reactions; it blends intonations of agreement without exploding detonations of disagreement. Understanding actions appeal to emotions while misunderstanding reactions peels emotion which was on track, away from it's goal. Never say good bye if you still want to try. Don't give up and say you don't love a person anymore if unspoken words lurk in your heart. Transform those unspoken words to spoken words. Never give up if you feel you can still go on.
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