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GOOD FRIENDS - friendship; be the good friend you seek (09)

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“Good friends help you to find important things when you have lost them; your smile, your hope, and your courage.” – Doe Zantamata. Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly. They rather hit you in the face than hit you at the back. Asides the fact that they are more about what they share in common with you than the differences, they definitely make a difference in your life. They pick us up when we fall down, and if they can’t pick us up, they lie down with us and listen for a while. They don’t just show you the light in the dark times but take your hands and walk by your side. They know you as you are, understand where you have been, accept what you have become and still gently allow you to grow. Yes! They accept who you are and help you become who you can be. Unlike toxic friends that don’t like your other friends, good friends know that everyone has their friends and won’t judge you for that. A true friend is the greatest of all blessings. They don’t just care for and understand each other but stay together forever beyond words, beyond distance and beyond time. Like stars, you may not always see them, but you just know they are always there.
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A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you; someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself; someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else; he sees the pain in your eyes, while everyone else believes in the smile on your face. He's someone who not just smiles when you smile or laughs when you laugh, but someone who holds your hands when you cry. Someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts your today just the way you are. A good friend is a connection to present, a tie to past and a road to the future. He never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down! Thy are the roses of life; pick them carefully and manage avoiding the thorns. They are like money in the bank, the longer you keep them, the more they are worth. Friends are like stars, they come and go, but the ones that stay are the ones that glow. They are like streets lights, they do not shorten the distance but they for sure make the path worth a walk. True friends are never apart. Maybe apart in distance, but not in heart. Friendship is all about three things; winning, losing and sharing. Winning your friends heart, losing yourself ego, and sharing joys and sorrows. Friendship requires little effort even when friends are busy with their own lives, a simple SMS reminds each other that you are not forgotten. Great friends are part of memories, which time can never erase. Treasure your friend.
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As stated earlier, friends accept your past, support your present and encourage your future. They are the ones who though chastise you constructively, have nice things to say about you behind your back. They stick by you not only during good times, but also struggle with you through hard times. Their love are more evident in times of trouble than happiness. Good Friends Are Hard to Find, Difficult to Leave, Impossible to Forget. A friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be anywhere else. Just like panties, friends are actually meant to cover your butt, to turn your frowns to smiles and your tears to laughter. I can't be your friend if you can't handle my weirdness. A true friend is someone who gives you hope when you run out of it; someone who is there for you when he’d rather be anywhere else. A good friend will be there for you when you cry; will gladly have a wet shoulder because of your tears. True friends are those people who make your problems their problems so that you don’t have to go through them alone. They know all your best stories and will gladly relive them with you just as they've done in time past. Before you complain about it being difficult to find good friends, be the good friend you seek, and be a blessing to others.
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The fact that you stopped showing love to someone doesn't necessarily mean you've stopped loving him/her. You can never be just friends with somebody you used to love, simply because a little part of you will always love them; all the same, Liking or Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to end lovers, sometimes you just have to be friends. Sometimes the best way to stay close to someone you love is being just a friend, nothing more nothing less. It’s great when two strangers become friends but its sad when two friends become strangers. The fact that a relationship didn't work out doesn't mean you can't still be friends; even best of friends. Best friends in this case are those people who make your problems their problems so that you don’t have to go through them alone. The greatest value of having good people around you is not what you get from them but the better person you become because of them, so don't just expect good people to flock round you, also be one of the good people flocking around other persons. The fact that she's an ex doesn't mean you can no longer make her laugh a little louder. The fact that he's an ex doesn't mean you can no longer make him smile a little brighter. The fact that the relationship didn't work out doesn't mean you can't help each other become better persons and live a little better than before.
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